2009 Reflections

2009 is gone! I've been wanting to reflect on last year for a couple of weeks, but due to the situation with Frank, I haven't had the opportunity.



In 2009, Frank and I experienced betrayal that hurt us greatly. Fortunately, we have since moved on and found a new amazing church home.



When Frank had his issues that began full force in August. I have never been as scared as I was when Frank's fever hit 104.6. I was contemplating how to get the boys back from church camp. I was that scared. It was during that time, that we realized who our real friends were. Our LSA family was there through the whole time and after. I realized then that friendship was a two way street. We had been in so many friendships that were very one-sided. We now know what it is like to have friends that call just to find out how we are doing.



Frank was in and out of the hospital from August until just this week. After his major surgery a couple of weeks ago, we can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is so awesome to see my husband feel better.

2009 proved to be a year that I realized how wonderful my family is. I miss my brother terribly, but he is always willing to drop everything and get to Lubbock if he needs to. I'm so lucky to be as close to him as I am. This year, my father came out of his shell, so to speak, and has become a major part of our lives. It all began on Father's Day when Frank asked me to invite my dad down to celebrate. I told Frank that Dad probably won't come so no need to ask. Well, Frank pretty much forced me to call and ask. I was shocked that he said YES! Since that day, he has been a huge part of our lives. I still thank Frank for forcing me to ask him down for Father's day.

God really came into our lives this year. My relationship with God is much better than it has ever been. Can't explain why, but I'm glad! 2010 is going to be a great year. With 2009 behind us, we are in for a great year!!